My Mundane Musings

Growing up I longed for the fast paced life of big city life and corporate America. Now I’m a stay at home mom of 4 in a small rural community! And I wouldn’t have it any other way! (At least for now).

Why I blog… December 12, 2007

Filed under: blog, entertainment, family, friends, fun, internet, life, marriage, news, profoundness, travels — Rebekah Sanders @ 10:55 am

Chip got a call for an interview the other day about his blog. He was a bit puzzled because he doesn’t blog very regularly (although he is now) and somehow they managed to find his blog and not mine. Doesn’t really matter to me, but he gave them my blog address and told them I was the one to talk to.

I’ve been blogging for almost 5 years now. I started shortly after Noah was born (unfortunately, I lost quite a bit when I changed blog servers from Blogger to Xanga many moons ago). I was blogging before before blogging was cool…

The big question for the article was “Why do you blog?” I blog because I like to write. I blog because it’s cathartic for me and much cheaper than therapy. With 4 kids, I need somewhere I can just let it all go. As a pastor’s wife, I need somewhere that I can just let it all out from time to time. As a wife, I just like a place where I can brag on my husband. And to show off my kids. To stay in touch with relatives far off. To be real.

That’s the thing about my blog that is different from most - it’s me. My whole theory on life is that life is too short to pretend that I’m something that I’m not. I’m who I am - and if you don’t like it, that’s ok. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me. I don’t agree with everyone else. And from time to time I make people mad with things I say on my blog. Because I’m not into legalism when it comes to my relationship with Jesus. And if there is anything that will make people mad, it’s questioning what they believe - especially if they don’t have an answer!

I guess I just try to live an authentic life. I want people to see Jesus in me. Not because I’m trying to sell them anything, but because my love for Him pores from my very being. I want them to see that marriage really can be GREAT and FUN. I want them to see that raising kids is work, but it’s the most rewarding job in the world. I want them to see that you can adapt to small town life even if your heart is screaming, “But I’m a big city girl!” I want them to see me for who I am. Because that’s all I am. With all my faults and screwups. With all my accomplishments and hard work.

I am who I am. And this is why I blog…

 

Off on an adventure… December 1, 2007

Filed under: family, fun, life, marriage, travels — Rebekah Sanders @ 9:20 am

In our family, when we go off and do something new, we call it an adventure. It started because when Elijah was about 4 or so, going and doing new things struck panic is his little heart. So saying, “We’re going someplace we’ve never been before.” was not a good thing. So, we started going on adventures. Because heroes go on adventures. Because adventures are fun and conjur up images in their minds of Frodo’s trip to Mordor or Luke’s missions in space. Adventures are something to be experienced. And that’s exactly what we want for our kids, for life to be an adventure.

And let me tell you, they are MAD they are not going on this latest crazy adventure with Chip and I. We finally bought a new van. On eBay. In Texas. We fly out of Indy on Monday early afternoon to fly to Houston. My mom is coming to stay with the kids. We got a great deal on the tickets (I’m talking both of us flying for like $225). We will fly down on Monday and pick the van up on Tuesday morning. Then we’ll start the trip home. *IF* I can figure out how to post to my blog from my phone (I can’t get my phone to log into WordPress), I’m sure you’ll hear all the adventures along the way. If not, I’m sorry, but only my Facebook friends (feel free to add me - I like new friends) will be able to see because I can add a note there.

Why is this such an adventure? Because it’s the first time in our married lives that Chip and I have gone anywhere by ourselves that didn’t involve going to visit family or going to some sort of meeting. We went on our honeymoon, but even part of that required us going down to his parents house for a second wedding reception (not that I’m complaining). And by the time we got home from our honeymoon and settled in at new jobs, we found out that Elijah was on the way and well, we popped out even more kids since then. It’s hard to get away without them. We enjoy spending time with our kids so we like to take them places with us. When Seth is 18, Chip and I will still be in our late 40’s so we figure we have a lot of time left to enjoy together! But we’re looking forward to our adventure. Right now the only definite stop we have planned is in Memphis for barbeque.

 Looking forward to the journey!

 

I’m thankful… November 22, 2007

Filed under: family, holidays, kids, life, marriage, profoundness — Rebekah Sanders @ 8:57 pm

We were driving back from Thanksgiving dinner today and I told Chip, “Sometimes I just love one of the kids or you so much that it literally feels like my heart will BURST if it fills with anymore love!” And I’m not kidding.  I think it’s just my heart stretching and loving more. I *love* this family of mine that God has blessed me with. There is no other person or people on this earth that I would rather spend time with. Period. I thank my God every day that He not only gave me this amazing life to live, but also that He gave me such a wonderful family to love - and that loves me.

Chip, my husband, loves me. I know it. I can tell by the way that he looks at me. Even after 11.5 years of marriage, my heart still skips a beat and I have to catch my breath when he walks into a room. He’s my best friend. The love of my life. My soul-mate. God gave me a small glimpse of heaven and what real community will be like when He put Chip in my life. Because, with this wonderful man of God that I’m married to, I find it easy to put his needs before my own. Each day, I grow in my love for him and in my love for God. And while I know that we’ll get to spend eternity together, I’m so very, very thankful for the opportunity God gave us to know one another in this lifetime as well. Today, my heart swells…

Elijah is growing up before my eyes. He’s such a great big brother. Sure, he has his differences with his siblings from time to time, but just stand back if someone tries to hurt them. Kaitlyn had an altercation (as she often does) with one of Elijah’s friends the other day. I can always count on him to be the voice of reason and I can always count on him to protect his sister when she needs it. I love that he’s always willing to lend a helping hand. Last night I watched him look through the world vision catalog and dream of ways that he could raise money to help others around the world. He teaches me what it means to love my neighbor as myself. And my heart swells more…

Kaitlyn is such a bundle of energy. She lives in the dramatic. It is all or nothing with Kait.  Her dreams aren’t just big, they are HUGE. And she’s learning what it means to put her hope in God and not the things of this world.  She was telling me how someday she’ll use her heart and the talents and gifts that God has given her to glorify Him. She teaches me what it means to really praise and worship God. And my heart swells…

Noah is so full of  life. Everything  around him is thrown upside down because a battle that we may not be able to see is always raging. He is always involved in a sword fight or a light-saber battle of some sort. He will win the VICTORY! And he  does not give up (unless of course mom takes away the light-saber) and presses on. I guess some might say he gets that competetive edge from me. He teaches me what it means to persevere. And my heart swells…

Seth is growing like a weed. The changes from one day to the next amaze me as he learns to communicate and share his world with us. Every day is a new adventure. A day to be appreciated. An experience waiting to happen. A place waiting to be explored. Some might say that trouble finds him. I prefer to think that he just wants to live life to the fullest. Seth teaches me to soar. And my heart swells…

I’m thankful. Not just today, but every day that God blesses me with on this planet. And there really aren’t words to express how deeply thankful I am…

 

Building my own golf pro… November 8, 2007

Filed under: Nifty Stuff, family, fun, marriage — Rebekah Sanders @ 12:43 pm

Chip loves to golf. Absolutely loves it.  Doesn’t get to do it nearly as much as he likes, but there are still golf magazines all over my house.  Thankfully, I find those subscriptions online for free most of the time.  But they are the one magazine of his that he “forbids” me to throw away. (Much like I “forbid” him to throw away my Rachel Ray magazines).

His current subscription just ran out, so I was looking for a new “free” link online.  And while I didn’t find one for a magazine, I did manage to find a website that might help him develop the perfect golf swing. And maybe, just maybe, he’ll start getting rid of some of those golf magazines!

 

Walk with me… October 12, 2007

Filed under: life, marriage, television — Rebekah Sanders @ 9:47 am

We’ve had a crazy week.  Bordering on insane. When we got home from a visitation for a distant family member of Chip’s, we were looking forward to getting the kids in bed and settling in to watch the Office (which was kind of boring last night? I think I need to rewatch).

Chip did the dishes and I got homework ready for today.  Talked to my mom on the phone for a few minutes. Read some blogs. Jammied the kids.  We got them in bed and Chip put on some popcorn.

While waiting for the popcorn to get done, I was cleaning up a bit on the counter.  I spotted a washcloth sitting on the end of the counter with something disgusting on it.  I decided it just wasn’t worth washing and possibly spreading the offending slimy goop onto other towels.  I grabbed the pile of towels and started towards the garbage.  I was looking through them to make sure the goop wasn’t on any of the other ones when…

BAM!!!

I walked into an open, upper cabinet door!  OH MY!  I literally saw stars, the room spun around me, I felt like throwing up and could do nothing but bend over with my head between my knees.  Instant migraine!

So, maybe it wasn’t The Office that was boring, only my perception of it.  I’m sure I’ll watch it again sometime.

Anyway, the moral of the story - Walk with me!  Just not too closely, and if you see any open cabinets, probably a good idea to warn me!

 

I love my husband… October 2, 2007

Filed under: family, marriage — Rebekah Sanders @ 9:53 am

Not that any regular reader of my blog needs me to say that.  It’s like stating the obvious.

But yesterday, I had a particularly hard time at the funeral.  I was fine until we got to the gravesite and they were playing Taps.  I completely lost it.  And while I loved Joe dearly - he was one of those guys who would give you the shirt off his back if he thought it would help you - I was a bit surprised at my strong reaction, especially since I’m not much of a crier.

Until last night when Chip and I were talking about everything that has transpired over the past few days.  He looked at me and said, “It was really hard for you to watch her bury her husband, wasn’t it?”

And it dawned on me.  That is my greatest fear.  That something with happen to this man that I love so much that it feels as natural as breathing.  That if God would see it necessary to take home this man that I need more than air - how would I go on?  What would I do?  The simple thought of *not* being with him, of *not* seeing him, of *not* being able to share my life with him is almost too much to take.  Like I told the widow yesterday, “It’s like having a really great addiction.  And then being forced to go cold turkey.”  I just don’t know how I’d do it.

I’ve had some people who look at me like I have three heads when I talk about my husband that way.  They just don’t get it.  But the truth is he’s my best friend and there is no one else on this earth that I’d rather spend every waking moment with.  He’s the first one that I think of when I want to celebrate and the one that I need when I’m sad. I don’t sleep if he’s away for the night and I feel secure when he’s near.

For a while I really struggled with whether or not I loved him more than God even.  But I’ve come to realize over the years that the more I fall in love with Jesus, the more I love my husband.  The more wrapped up in the things of God I become, the more my love for my husband grows.  I can love, because God first loved me.  Now I realized that God isn’t on the top of some list, but that because of God, I’m able to love the things on my list as much as I do.  It’s a win-win-win situation!

So, today, I’m loving my husband.  I’m enjoying him because you never know what tomorrow might bring.  But I’m looking forward to enjoying many, many, many more tomorrows with him!

 

Sunday September 9, 2007 September 9, 2007

Filed under: church, family, life, marriage — Rebekah Sanders @ 9:13 pm

I think the last 24 hours have been the longest of my life.  And I’m certain I’m more gray because of it all…

It all started about 8:30 last night (Saturday).  A member from our church called the church phone (which rings in our living room) and Chip answered.  She said she had misdialed - she meant to call the fire department but instead called the church.  I was finishing up stuff from the church so I was sitting on the computer.  He called out, “Get Seth out of the bathtub.  I have to go __________’s has a fire in her kitchen.”  He grabbed the fire extinguisher from our kitchen and was out the door before I could even get out of my chair.

10 minutes later, I heard the sirens.  I knew his thinking was he could get there faster than the fire department (they are all volunteer).  I got the kids bathed and in bed with a movie.  I cleaned the living room.  I cleaned the dining room. I sat down and looked at the clock and he’d been gone more than an hour, so I sent a text message to make sure he was ok.

A couple minutes later, my phone rang.  He wasn’t getting a signal, so we hung up and I sent him another text.  A minute later my phone rang and this is what I heard:

“This is _____ _____________ with the Bethany Fire Department.  Chip wanted me to call and let you know that we are taking him and (owner of the house) to St. Mary’s hospital for treatment.  He said to make sure you know he’s fine.  He breathed in some smoke and it was a chemical fire so we want to take him in for a blood gas and make sure everything is ok before we let him come home.”

OH MY!!!!  Thankfully, when stuff like that happens, I can deal well under pressure.  While I was on the phone, he sent me another text and said he was fine and asked me to call a friend to come pick him up.  He told me I didn’t need to worry and I only had to come up to the hospital if I wanted to.  Did I want to go up to the hospital?  Um? YA THINK!

So, I made a phone call to a friend to take me up there.  Then I tried calling his mom - the woman who ALWAYS has her phone handy - so she could come up and sit with the kids.  NO ANSWER!!!  It kept going right to voice mail.  So, I got on the computer to turn on my instant messenger and it wouldn’t work!  AHHHHHH!!!  Thankfully, we have these handy new phones that have our IM’s built right in, so I logged in on my phone and got her that way.  She finally called me back (her phone was dead) and said she was on her way.  When I saw headlights in the driveway, I went out to see who it was.  It was some wonderful people from our church who were coming to watch the kids and take me up there if I needed.  So, I left my kids in their care because right after them, our friend pulled up to take me to the hospital.

We got up there and if I can get the picture off his phone (not likely he’ll let me - maybe his sister can txt it to me? Carina?) I’ll post it.  I walked in and they had him on an oxygen mask and were putting leads on his chest and getting ready to draw blood.  I’m not sure I even stopped to take a breath from the time I got the call from the ambulance until the time I walked into the room.  The did the blood work, took a chest x-ray and gave him some oxygen.  At about 11:45, they let him come home.  He had instructions to rest, drink lots of fluids and return if anything changed. (The owner of the home also was released with no problems).

It was a spontaneous combustion fire.  Not the fault of the homeowner (it was repair work on her house that involved chemicals), not the fault of anyone really.  Just one of those things that happens.  Apparently, he got there and went in to try and put the fire out.  The extinguisher wouldn’t work, so they got out of the house.  Then he went back in for her cat and couldn’t find it.  He said he was in the house less than 30 seconds the second time.  Less than 2 minutes total.  I say when I do the fire safety class for the kids this year, I’m going to make him watch too!  The moral of the story - don’t go into a burning house!  EVER!

We came home and at about 1:30, we finally got to bed.  At about 4am, he woke up and started flipping and flopping.  Then his sister sent a text message.  Yes, at 4am!  At about 6am, we were both still awake and trying to sleep and he finally said, “I don’t want to bother you, but I’ve been having chest pains for the past 2 hours.”  He said it felt like someone was stabbing him in the side every 10-15 seconds.  By 7:30, his parents were back and we were heading back up to the hospital.

Turned out everything was ok.  His heart was fine (he said his hand was going numb - the main reason we went in) and the doctor said he most likely overexerted himself the night before.  His sister seems to think that it is probably related to the chemicals he inhaled.  They gave him a shot in the hip with anti-inflammatories (toradol for those who care) and sent us home with instructions for him to rest and not lift anything heavy for a week. *sigh*  Just as we were getting ready to come home, a little boy from our church was coming in.  He had hives all over his body (he’s home and fine now - he got a shot in the hip too).  We got home at 10:15 this morning.  Church starts at 10:30!

So, he stayed home and went to bed and his dad preached for him.  After church, we sent Noah home with PawPaw, I got the kids lunch and put Seth down for his nap and then I laid down myself.  2.5 hours is *not* enough sleep for me!  Chip got up about 3ish with Seth and I slept until almost 4:30.  He is still having some pain in his chest from time to time (he’s got an Rx, we’ll get it filled tomorrow) and has a blazing headache.  He stayed home from church tonight.

While we were at church tonight (are you thinking this is never going to end yet?), a friend came in and said they were taking their 10month old daughter to the ER because she was having problems breathing.  She was just diagnosed with allergies last Friday and they painted her bedroom today so it could have been from that, but they called the doctor and he said to bring her into the ER.  We are still waiting on word from them.  We sent another couple from the church (their neighbors and friends) up to find them and call us and let us know.  It’s possible that we could end up at the ER again tonight.  3 times, 4 different people (5 if you count Chip twice) in less than 24 hours.  That has got to be some kind of record for a church of only 30 people!

So, now it’s almost 8:30 and I’m holding my breath for another 17 minutes and hoping that the past day is almost behind us.  And thanking God that tomorrow is another day!

 

Thursday August 23, 2007 August 23, 2007

Filed under: family, holidays, marriage — Rebekah Sanders @ 11:12 pm

Well, Chip’s another year older and another year wiser.  Ok, at least another year older! ;)  Love ya, hon! Happy birthday, sweetheart!  May this next year be full of fun, laughter and love!

He took the day off and just hung out.  Got to hang out with a good friend for a while this afternoon, talk to his sister for a while, his mom came and watched the kids and he eventually decided that we’d go see a movie.  We saw the Bourne Ultimatum.  Again.  I think it was even better the second time around.

Now we’re home to eat dinner (at 10pm) of garlic bread pizza and then top it off with dessert - Klondike bars.  Which begs the question - what would *you* do for Klondike bar?

 

Tuesday August 7, 2007 August 7, 2007

Filed under: marriage — Rebekah Sanders @ 11:22 pm

When I’m having a crisis, no matter how trivial he might think it is, he always has the magic words. “Let’s go to the store and get something to fix it!”  And then, without even asking where I want to go, he just takes me to Target.  *THAT*, dear friends, is true love…

 

Saturday August 4, 2007 August 4, 2007

Filed under: entertainment, food, fun, life, marriage — Rebekah Sanders @ 2:19 pm

and my resolve to post daily has already fallen.  I’m back on board now and hopefully few days will be missed between now and the beginning of September.

The truth is that I was just busy yesterday.  I had kids all day, did a TON of laundry and cleaning around the house and then went on a double date last night.  Not to mention that it’s a million degrees outside and even in the house you don’t want to move around much!

Last night was the night we’ve been waiting for all year!  We went to see The Bourne Ultimatum and it did NOT disappoint!  When it was done, I was ready to just sit there and watch it a second time through - it was *that* good.  I love a great action/adventure spy movie  and the Bourne movies are probably on my list of all time favorites.  I won’t give away any of the movie for those who didn’t go see it on opening night, but I will say that I will be very sad if they don’t go ahead and make a 4th (and 5th?  There are 5 books in the series now). *LOVE* these movies!

We went out to Cheddars after the movie for dinner and had some great conversation with friends before coming home.  We weren’t home long before heading to bed.  I thought about blogging last night, but honestly, I was just too content in my chair to get up and come on the computer so I just skipped ‘putering alltogether last night.

Unfortunately, today is off to a rockier start than yesterday.  Kait woke up at 5am with a sore ear.  I think it’s a case of swimmer’s ear.  When I finally got up it was almost 9:30 and 10 minutes later the neighbor girl came running into our house to tell us that Kait fell off her bike when she skidded on some gravel and ended up landing on her face.  She got a small scrape on the bridge of her nose, busted her knee open and has some roadrash on her side.  We went to the library and stocked up on some new books for her - she’s not wanting to do much today.  I’m hoping she’ll fall asleep for an hour or so this afternoon.  Otherwise the day could end up getting incredibly long!

Tomorrow is Sunday and I’ll have pictures tomorrow.  Kait is getting baptized tomorrow if it doesn’t rain (we do it in a neighbor’s pool).